Back in “the day” there were rules, rules and more rules on the wedding planning front. But today’s bride, (that’s you, darling!) has more opportunity than every before to design a day that is entirely hers.
The personal details that make it your own are in the flowers you choose, the dress you say yes to and, of course, the jewelry you commit to. At every turn, be confident in amplifying your distinct style!
So, without further ado, here are three tried and true pearls of wisdom that will ensure that you, the lucky bride to be, has everything you want on your big day.
Tip #1 – Let the Neckline Take the Lead!
If you have already made a commitment to the perfect accessories, be sure to take them to try on with your dress so you see it together and can make it just so. Regardless of style preference, a show stopping ensemble is all about striking the right balance.
If you’re wearing something low cut, you’ve got the real estate to show off a strong statement necklace. Use your creativity and consider pairing a bold necklace with low key earrings. With higher necklines, you have the opportunity to show off dramatic earrings like a pair of posh chandeliers that will naturally draw the eyes up.
The highest necklines, halters for instance, don’t allow room for necklaces but don’t let that stop you from adorning yourself! You can always go higher! Consider keeping jewelry demure and instead opt for an ornate hairpiece that crowns you with a heavy dose of extra queen vibes. Dang lady.
Tip #2 – About Something Borrowed
If you’ve always admired a treasured piece of jewelry of a relative or dear friend, perhaps they would feel utterly honored to be a part of your day by lending it for this special occasion. What a thoughtful way to include a loved one and magnify your bond.
Once an arrangement has been made, you can set to work putting the piece center stage and building the rest of your accessories around it. If you’re one of those ambitious types (get it, girl), you might even want to commission your own custom jewelry that can then be lent to other future family brides. After all, a new tradition always starts somewhere.
Now for the elephant in the the room. If a well meaning and deeply adoring family member offers you a “something borrowed” that you’re just not into, be true to yourself and be thoughtfully honest with them. Remember this is your day, be secure in your choices for this once-in-a-lifetime event and graciously decline with kindness.
Tip #3 – Comfort is not a bad word!
And finally, despite what some of our favorite childhood fairytales tell us (we’re talking to you, Disney), a bride is not a manicured display mannequin! You will feel your most vibrant, exhilarated and empowered self when you are content in your style choices on this momentous day.
Sure, consider trends from magazines and all corners of the internet. But ultimately only you can decide what you feel comfortable wearing on a day filled with family, friends and the love of your life.
To make sure your wedding day is the greatest day of your life, decide to be true to your own unique fashion sense and craft a bridal ensemble that makes you feel like the most breathtaking woman in the room.
Because, darling, you certainly are.
